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Showing posts with label disaster. Show all posts
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Saturday, September 2, 2017

Bailey - A Puritan School Day - Keeping the Public in Public Domain

Right now Hurricane Harvey has delayed the start of schools, but anybody in a refugee camp or a disaster shelter appreciates the need for children to return to "normal" with schools and storytelling and stuffed animals.  (The 3 Ss?) Back in 2010 I had a house flood, nothing like the scale of the hurricane and not when a whole region was impacted.  Still disasters of whatever scale happen to all of us to change our lives.  I recommend looking at pages I created earlier as I tried, especially in 2010, to put together the best resources for coping with disaster I could find.  (There's first a story about a forest fire which includes a resource possibly missed if you skip it.) As I write this Houston's schools expect to stay closed until at least September 11.

Here in Michigan the Labor Day holiday, aside from celebrating unions and feeling like summer's over, summons up three words: Back to School.

Our legislators even made this a requirement for public schools in 2000, so our tourism didn't suffer from starting earlier.  Yet each year more exceptions are made with this year a record number.  Those same politicians who haven't set foot in a K-12 in years have been increasing the school year for a long time and recently added five days to the school year.  I remember my own daughters howling when they heard about increased school time and they were in school.

It could always be worse.  Let's look back to colonial school days and the Dame School.  We can find a story about it in Carolyn Sherwin Bailey's Tell Me Another Story.  This picture from the Bettman Archives shows several things fitting the story, even the dunce cap, but it omits the spinning wheel and having boys and girls sit separately.

and here's a brief look at some of those illustrations in the New England Primer (there were many editions over the years).
Here's a slightly longer, colorful look at Colonial Schools as written by children, with even an optional quiz to get back in the school mood.  For a variety of reasons, school administrators have been cutting back recess time.  Maybe those old schools weren't too bad, as this Winslow Homer painting of Snap the Whip reminds us.
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This is part of a series of postings of stories under the category, "Keeping the Public in Public Domain."  The idea behind Public Domain was to preserve our cultural heritage after the authors and their immediate heirs were compensated.  I feel strongly current copyright law delays this intent on works of the 20th century.  My own library of folklore includes so many books within the Public Domain I decided to share stories from them.  I hope you enjoy discovering new stories.  



At the same time, my own involvement in storytelling regularly creates projects requiring research as part of my sharing stories with an audience.  Whenever that research needs to be shown here, the publishing of Public Domain stories will not occur that week.  This is a return to my regular posting of a research project here.  (Don't worry, this isn't dry research, my research is always geared towards future storytelling to an audience.)  Response has convinced me that "Keeping the Public in Public Domain" should continue along with my other postings as often as I can manage it.
 
Other Public Domain story resources I recommend-
  • There are many online resources for Public Domain stories, maybe none for folklore is as ambitious as fellow storyteller, Yoel Perez's database, Yashpeh, the International Folktales Collection.  I have long recommended it and continue to do so.  He has loaded Stith Thompson's Motif Index into his server as a database so you can search the whole 6 volumes for whatever word or expression you like by pressing one key. http://folkmasa.org/motiv/motif.htm
  • You may have noticed I'm no longer certain Dr. Perez has the largest database, although his offering the Motif Index certainly qualifies for those of us seeking specific types of stories.  There's another site, FairyTalez claiming to be the largest, with "over 2000 fairy tales, folktales, and fables" and they are "fully optimized for phones, tablets, and PCs", free and presented without ads.

    Between those two sites, there is much for story-lovers, but as they say in infomercials, "Wait, there's more!"
The email list for storytellers, Storytell, discussed Online Story Sources and came up with these additional suggestions:            
         - David K. Brown - http://people.ucalgary.ca/~dkbrown/stories.html
         - Richard Martin - http://www.tellatale.eu/tales_page.html
         - Spirit of Trees - http://spiritoftrees.org/featured-folktales
         - Story-Lovers - http://www.story-lovers.com/ is now only accessible through the Wayback Machine, described below, but Jackie Baldwin's wonderful site lives on there, fully searchable manually (the Google search doesn't work), at https://archive.org/ and put in http://www.story-lovers.com/ in the search box.  I recommend using the latest "snapshot" on November 2016
       - World of Tales - http://www.worldoftales.com/ 
   
    You're going to find many of the links on these sites have gone down, BUT go to the Internet Archive Wayback Machine to find some of these old links.  Tim's site, for example, is so huge probably updating it would be a full-time job.  In the case of Story-Lovers, it's great that Jackie Baldwin set it up to stay online as long as it did after she could no longer maintain it.  For an example of using the "Wayback Machine", list member, Papa Joe is on both Tim Sheppard's site and Story-Lovers, but he no longer maintains his old Papa Joe's Traveling Storytelling Show website and his Library (something you want to see!) is gone, but using the Wayback Machine you can still see it.  At the Wayback Machine I put in his site's address, then chose 2006 since it was a later year and clicked until I reached the Library at http://www.pjtss.net/library/.  
    Somebody as of this writing whose stories can still be found by his website is the late Chuck Larkin - http://chucklarkin.com/stories.html.  I prefer to list these sites by their complete address so they can be found by the Wayback Machine, a.k.a. Archive.org, when that becomes the only way to find them.
You can see why I recommend these to you. Have fun discovering even more stories!

Saturday, August 20, 2016

Audubon - The Burning of the Forests - Keeping the Public in Public Domain

With forest fires destroying large parts of California and other parts of the western United States, today's story reminds us summer's heat is the least of what could be happening.  Back in 2010 I had a house flood.  Nothing on the scale of what's going on in Baton Rouge currently, nor Hurricane Sandy, which hit in 2012, but I encourage people to check out my earlier disaster segments here since, from time to time, disasters change our lives.  Whether total loss or adjusting to the chaos of any major crisis, I tried to find as many ways for working through it all from others who had the same or worse events.  Right now I'm reading Wayne Muller's A Life of Being, Having, and Doing Enough.  In some cases I wish I could sit with Muller and disagree or question some of what he says, but on pages 136 and 137 is "What Grows After a Fire" and he talks about visiting an area only three weeks after a major fire destroyed dozens of homes.  Already, in the midst of the blackened refuse was a sea of green from 6 to 10" oak seedlings blanketing the forest floor without human interference.  His conclusion is that life is like this and "When we learn this, when we finally realize who we are, what we know, and of what we are truly capable, any fear of never having enough of anything gradually and inevitably falls away."

After today's story I will mention some Michigan forest fires mainly pre-dating the U.S. Forest Service.   I initially thought today's story was about an incident experienced by the great ornithologist, John James Audubon.  I found "A Forest on Fire" in Story Hour Readings, Fifth Year, which was part of a series for 1921 readers by educator, Ernest Clark Hartwell, for the American Book Company.  Hartwell gives some sources on his Acknowledgements page, but gave only a by-line attributing it to Audubon.

Of course that sent me hunting.  Audubon's Wikipedia article gave me a clue it might have happened while he lived in Kentucky.  Prowling Project Gutenberg, I found the story in Audubon and His Journals, volume 2 by Maria R. Audubon.  (This is the continuation of the Missouri River journals by John James Audubon in volume 1.)  The problem is Hartwell's reader simplifies the story and also doesn't explain this is a story told to Audubon by an unnamed hunter in Maine talking about an incident with his equally anonymous wife and daughter.  It's still a worthwhile story and, to identify where the actual story started in the reader, I'll give the introductory phrase in red.

I can't even identify the illustrator for the story's header as the title page explains.  By the way, as of this writing there are other years of the Story Hour Readings online, but not yet the Fifth Year.  The reader's version is easier to tell.  If you would like me to scan it and send you a copy, email me with Forest Fire Story Request in the Subject line.



or as the journal calls it 
THE BURNING OF THE FORESTS.

With what pleasure have I seated myself by the blazing fire of some lonely cabin, when, faint with fatigue, and chilled with the piercing blast, I had forced my way to it through the drifted snows that covered the face of the country as with a mantle. The affectionate mother is hushing her dear babe to repose, while a group of sturdy children surround their father, who has just returned from the chase, and deposited on the rough flooring of his hut the varied game which he has procured. The great back-log, that with some difficulty has been rolled into the ample chimney, urged, as it were, by lighted pieces of pine, sends forth a blaze of light over the happy family. The dogs of the hunter are already licking away the trickling waters of the thawing icicles that sparkle over their shaggy coats, and the comfort-loving cat is busied in passing her furry paws over each ear, or with her rough tongue smoothing her glossy coat.
How delightful to me has it been when, kindly received and hospitably treated under such a roof, by persons whose means were as scanty as their generosity was great, I have entered into conversation with them respecting subjects of interest to me, and received gratifying information. When the humble but plentiful repast was ended, the mother would take from the shelf the Book of books, and mildly request the attention of her family, while the father read aloud a chapter. Then to Heaven would ascend their humble prayers, and a good-night would be bidden to all friends far and near. How comfortably have I laid my wearied frame on the Buffalo hide, and covered me with the furry skin of some huge Bear! How pleasing have been my dreams of home and happiness, as I there lay, secure from danger and sheltered from the inclemency of the weather. 295
I recollect that once while in the State of Maine, I passed such a night as I have described. Next morning the face of nature was obscured by the heavy rains that fell in torrents, and my generous host begged me to remain, in such pressing terms that I was well content to accept his offer. Breakfast over, the business of the day commenced; the spinning-wheels went round, and the boys employed themselves, one in searching for knowledge, another in attempting to solve some ticklish arithmetical problem. In a corner lay the dogs, dreaming of plunder, while close to the ashes stood grimalkin, seriously purring in concert with the wheels. The hunter and I seated ourselves each on a stool, while the matron looked after her domestic arrangements.
"Puss," quoth the dame, "get away; you told me last night of this day's rain, and I fear you may now give us worse news with tricky paws." Puss accordingly went off, leaped on a bed, and rolling herself in a ball, composed herself for a comfortable nap. I asked the husband what his wife meant by what she had just said. "The good woman," said he, "has some curious notions at times, and she believes, I think, in the ways of animals of all kinds. Now, her talk to the cat refers to the fires of the woods around us, and although they have happened long ago, she fears them quite as much as ever, and, indeed, she and I and all of us have good reason to dread them, as they have brought us many calamities." Having read of the great fires to which my host alluded, and frequently observed with sorrow the mournful state of the forests, I felt anxious to know something of the causes by which these direful effects had been produced. I therefore requested him to give me an account of the events resulting from those fires which he had witnessed. Willingly he at once went on, nearly as follows:—
"About twenty-five years ago the larch, or hackmatack, trees were nearly all killed by insects. This took place in 296 what hereabouts is called the 'black soft growth' land, that is, the spruce, pine, and all other firs. The destruction of the trees was effected by the insects cutting the leaves, and you must know that, although other trees are not killed by the loss of their leaves, the evergreens always are. Some few years after this destruction of the larch, the same insects attacked the spruces, pines, and other firs, in such a manner that, before half a dozen years were over, they began to fall, and, tumbling in all directions, they covered the whole country with matted masses. You may suppose that when partially dried or seasoned, they would prove capital fuel, as well as supplies for the devouring flames, which accidentally, or perhaps by intention, afterwards raged over the country, and continued burning at intervals for years, in many places stopping all communication by the roads; the resinous nature of the firs being of course best fitted to insure and keep up the burning of the deep beds of dry leaves or of the other trees." Here I begged him to give me some idea of the form of the insects which had caused such havoc.
"The insects," said he, "were, in their caterpillar form, about three quarters of an inch in length, and as green as the leaves of the trees they fed on, when they committed their ravages. I must tell you also that, in most of the places over which the fire passed, a new growth of wood has already sprung up, of what we lumberers call hard wood, which consists of all other sorts but pine or fir; and I have always remarked that wherever the first natural growth of a forest is destroyed, either by the axe, the hurricane, or the fire, there springs up spontaneously another of quite a different kind." I again stopped my host to inquire if he knew the method or nature of the first kindling of the fires.
"Why, sir," said he, "there are different opinions about this. Many believe that the Indians did it, either to be the better able to kill the game, or to punish their 297 enemies the Pale-faces. My opinion, however, is different; and I derive it from my experience in the woods as a lumberer. I have always thought that the fires began by the accidental fall of a dry trunk against another, when their rubbing together, especially as many of them are covered with resin, would produce fire. The dry leaves on the ground are at once kindled, next the twigs and branches, when nothing but the intervention of the Almighty could stop the progress of the fire.
"In some instances, owing to the wind, the destructive element approached the dwellings of the inhabitants of the woods so rapidly that it was difficult for them to escape. In some parts, indeed, hundreds of families were obliged to flee from their homes, leaving all they had behind them, and here and there some of the affrighted fugitives were burnt alive."
At this moment a rush of wind came down the chimney, blowing the blaze of the fire towards the room. The wife and daughter, imagining for a moment that the woods were again on fire, made for the door, but the husband explaining the cause of their terror, they resumed their work.
"Poor things," said the lumberer, "I dare say that what I have told you brings sad recollections to the minds of my wife and eldest daughter, who, with myself, had to fly from our home, at the time of the great fires." I felt so interested in his relation of the causes of the burnings that I asked him to describe to me the particulars of his misfortunes at the time. "If Prudence and Polly," said he, looking towards his wife and daughter, "will promise to sit still should another puff of smoke come down the chimney, I will do so." The good-natured smile with which he made this remark elicited a return from the women and he proceeded:—
"It is a difficult thing, sir, to describe, but I will do my best to make your time pass pleasantly. We were sound asleep one night in a cabin about a hundred miles from 298 this, when, about two hours before day, the snorting of the horses and lowing of the cattle which I had ranging in the woods suddenly awakened us. I took yon rifle and went to the door, to see what beast had caused the hubbub, when I was struck by the glare of light reflected on all the trees before me, as far as I could see through the woods. My horses were leaping about, snorting loudly, and the cattle ran among them with their tails raised straight over their backs. On going to the back of the house, I plainly heard the crackling made by the burning brushwood, and saw the flames coming towards us in a far extended line. I ran to the house, told my wife to dress herself and the child as quick as possible, and take the little money we had, while I managed to catch and saddle the two best horses. All this was done in a very short time, for I guessed that every moment was precious to us.
"We then mounted, and made off from the fire. My wife, who is an excellent rider, stuck close to me; my daughter, who was then a small child, I took in one arm. When making off as I said, I looked back and saw that the frightful blaze was close upon us, and had already laid hold of the house. By good luck, there was a horn attached to my hunting-clothes, and I blew it, to bring after us, if possible, the remainder of my live stock, as well as the dogs. The cattle followed for a while; but, before an hour had elapsed, they all ran as if mad through the woods, and that, sir, was the last of them. My dogs, too, although at other times extremely tractable, ran after the Deer that in bodies sprung before us, as if fully aware of the death that was so rapidly approaching.
"We heard blasts from the horns of our neighbors as we proceeded, and knew that they were in the same predicament. Intent on striving to the utmost to preserve our lives, I thought of a large lake some miles off, which might possibly check the flames; and, urging my wife to 299 whip up her horse, we set off at full speed, making the best way we could over the fallen trees and brush-heaps, which lay like so many articles placed on purpose to keep up the terrific fires that advanced with a broad front upon us.
"By this time we could feel the heat; and we were afraid that our horses would drop every instant. A singular kind of breeze was passing over our heads, and the glare of the atmosphere shone over the daylight. I was sensible of a slight faintness, and my wife looked pale. The heat had produced such a flush in the child's face that when she turned towards either of us, our grief and perplexity were greatly increased. Ten miles, you know, are soon gone over on swift horses; but, notwithstanding this, when we reached the borders of the lake, covered with sweat and quite exhausted, our hearts failed us. The heat of the smoke was insufferable, and sheets of blazing fire flew over us in a manner beyond belief. We reached the shores, however, coasted the lake for a while, and got round to the lee side. There we gave up our horses, which we never saw again. Down among the rushes we plunged by the edge of the water, and laid ourselves flat, to wait the chance of escaping from being burnt or devoured. The water refreshed us, and we enjoyed the coolness.
"On went the fire, rushing and crashing through the woods. Such a sight may we never see! The heavens, themselves, I thought were frightened, for all above us was a red glare mixed with clouds of smoke, rolling and sweeping away. Our bodies were cool enough, but our heads were scorching, and the child, who now seemed to understand the matter, cried so as nearly to break our hearts.
"The day passed on, and we became hungry. Many wild beasts came plunging into the water beside us, and others swam across to our side and stood still. Although 300 faint and weary, I managed to shoot a Porcupine, and we all tasted its flesh. The night passed, I cannot tell you how. Smouldering fires covered the ground, and trees stood like pillars of fire, or fell across each other. The stifling and sickening smoke still rushed over us, and the burnt cinders and ashes fell thick about us. How we got through that night I really cannot tell, for about some of it I remember nothing." Here the hunter paused, and took breath. The recital of his adventure seemed to have exhausted him. His wife proposed that we should have a bowl of milk, and the daughter having handed it to us, we each took a draught.
"Now," said he, "I will proceed. Towards morning, although the heat did not abate, the smoke became less, and blasts of fresh air sometimes made their way to us. When morning came, all was calm, but a dismal smoke still filled the air, and the smell seemed worse than ever. We were now cooled enough, and shivered as if in an ague fit; so we removed from the water, and went up to a burning log, where we warmed ourselves. What was to become of us, I did not know. My wife hugged the child to her breast, and wept bitterly; but God had preserved us through the worst of the danger, and the flames had gone past, so I thought it would be both ungrateful to him and unmanly to despair now. Hunger once more pressed upon us, but this was easily remedied. Several Deer were still standing in the water, up to the head, and I shot one of them. Some of its flesh was soon roasted; and after eating it we felt wonderfully strengthened.
"By this time the blaze of the fire was beyond our sight, although the ground was still burning in many places, and it was dangerous to go among the burnt trees. After resting awhile, and trimming ourselves, we prepared to commence our march. Taking up the child, I led the way over the hot ground and rocks; and, after two weary days and nights, during which we shifted in the best 301 manner we could, we at last reached the 'hard woods' which had been free of the fire. Soon after we came to a house, where we were kindly treated for a while. Since then, sir, I have worked hard and constantly as a lumberer; but, thanks be to God, here we are safe, sound, and happy!"

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All that talk about the hunter now calling himself a lumberer brings me to thinking about the List of Michigan wildfires and in 1881 how it changed the face of Michigan's Thumb area into cleared farmland.  Ten years earlier, on October 8, 1871, at the very same time everybody's attention was switched to the Great Chicago Fire (so familiarly attributed by a song to Mrs. O'Leary's cow kicking a lantern over), the Upper Peninsula of Michigan and on into Wisconsin with the Peshtigo Fire, came history's deadliest wildfire.  It even left evidence in concrete reminiscent of the atomic bomb.  I read books about that fire and was impressed to learn it not only was missed because of Chicago's disaster, but it was also on the same day as a fire across the bay in Wisconsin's Door Peninsula and several locations in Michigan at Holland, Manistee, and Port Huron.  Here it was just called the Great Michigan Fire.


It's been a long time since I grew up hearing Smokey the Bear cautioning us about not carelessly starting fires.  Even that bit of official public service announcement gathered a story, after the fact, when a black bear cub was rescued after being rescued from a New Mexico wildfire.  Of course the cub was later named Smokey after the advertising mascot.  He lived a long and apparently happy life at the National Zoo.  The hotlink manages to give even more information about him.  Nowadays, while careless fires still can start devastating fires, controlled burns supposedly eliminate the brush that can fuel a wildfire.  I remember walking my dog past one at Orion Oaks Park and seeing an emerald green snake gasping at the edge of the burn.  He was half burnt up.  The next time I walked there he was gone.  Probably eaten.  Rather like the story of the unknown hunter who told his story to Audubon and killed a deer after the fire was over.
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Today's story was long, but I want to include this is part of a series of postings of stories under the category, "Keeping the Public in Public Domain."  The idea behind Public Domain was to preserve our cultural heritage after the authors and their immediate heirs were compensated.  I feel strongly current copyright law delays this intent on works of the 20th century.  My own library of folklore includes so many books within the Public Domain I decided to share stories from them.  I hope you enjoy discovering new stories.  


At the same time, my own involvement in storytelling regularly creates projects requiring research as part of my sharing stories with an audience.  Whenever that research needs to be shown here, the publishing of Public Domain stories will not occur that week.  This is a return to my regular posting of a research project here.  (Don't worry, this isn't dry research, my research is always geared towards future storytelling to an audience.)  Response has convinced me that "Keeping the Public in Public Domain" should continue along with my other postings as often as I can manage it. 

Other Public Domain story resources I recommend -
  • There are many online resources for Public Domain stories, maybe none for folklore is as ambitious as fellow storyteller, Yoel Perez's database, Yashpeh, the International Folktales Collection.  I have long recommended it and continue to do so.  He has loaded Stith Thompson's Motif Index into his server as a database so you can search the whole 6 volumes for whatever word or expression you like by pressing one key. http://folkmasa.org/motiv/motif.htm
  • You may have noticed I'm no longer certain Dr. Perez has the largest database, although his offering the Motif Index certainly qualifies for those of us seeking specific types of stories.  There's another site, FairyTalez claiming to be the largest, with "over 2000 fairy tales, folktales, and fables" and they are "fully optimized for phones, tablets, and PCs", free and presented without ads.
Between those two sites, there is much for story-lovers, but as they say in infomercials, "Wait, there's more!"
You can see why I recommend these to you. Have fun discovering even more stories!

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Thanksgiving, Disaster and Libraries

The Geek the Library campaign uses "geek" as a verb, showing the many things about which people are passionate -- things libraries can help you find more about since that's what libraries do!  I'm not sure I care for this use of the word "geek -- I'm also no fan of using a heart symbol for "love", BUT I am a definite fan of libraries.  Superstorm Sandy damaged NY and NJ libraries.  (Some states stopped insurance companies calling it a hurricane with humongous deductibles since Sandy didn't have sustained hurricane-force winds on  reaching their land.) 

Go to my blog's tag "disaster" for coping ideas.  Disasters aren't solved quickly.  My blog's disaster series included ideas from storytellers and others who survived disaster.  A year later I still hadn't completed all insurance paperwork.

I never did. 

Less than a year before our houseflood we met with our insurance agent and were told we had over 100% coverage. . .  yeahrightsure, but at depreciated value!  He apologized for the oversight, but without replacement coverage books and stored clothing filling pages of forms were depressing reminders of what was lost and "worth" replacing.  He no longer writes policies for less than replacement value, but our houseflood alerted him to that oversight. 

Why tell this?  It's my personal story of a fairly manageable disaster.  I remember a Toledo librarian whose library burned down.  She later said if she'd known how things would go afterwards, she'd have thrown the books on the fire herself!  We had great help from ServPro, who did an excellent job of removing water and then removing the remaining moisture, and Above Board Construction did a great job of giving us new floors, walls, and electricity.  (Note to self: go to business reviewing sites to review them for how wonderful they were.)  The process of all this seemed to take forever and some things just can't be replaced no matter how good your "insurance."

With the numbers affected by Sandy there will be a shortage of ServPros and "above board" construction, just as restoring power and heat was slow.  Libraries already cope with reduced budgets.  Some public libraries here in Michigan are closing or barely open.  That's why the Geek the Library campaign was started.  Individuals without heat and power found any libraries open a source of both power and information. Unfortunately Superstorm Sandy damaged some libraries badly enough to require major reconstruction before they can reopen in the very areas most in need of their help.

Whether the word "geek" deserves to become a verb or not, libraries still have enormous value for their communities.  Much of my research for my storytelling and, yes, a lot of it is online, uses the skills librarians offer daily.  (I sub occasionally at White Lake Township Library as I wasn't ready to walk away from those skills and helping people.  With help from congregation member, Beth Rosin, I'm also in the midst of putting the roughly 3000 items in our church library online.)  Even when the power goes out on our electronic "toys", the value of libraries remains.

In this time when we look forward to giving thanks, let's be thankful in supporting our libraries.   

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

When Disaster Strikes...One Year Later

I've been uncertain when to post this as I know those who most need it probably can't go online.  It's the anniversary of our house flood last year, but it looks puny compared to the flooding, fire, and other disasters I hope are not affecting you or your family.  Whether it's us or others we know, I hope a multi-part series I put on my blog last year helps. 
The series opened saying:

When Disaster Strikes First Aid Kit


November is a month dominated by the Thanksgiving holiday.  What do you do when circumstances make it hard to be thankful?

Whether it's worry over health of your own or someone you love, a disaster, the irritation and difficulties of dealing with construction, whatever has you Coping with Chaos, this month I want to create a First Aid Kit for whenever you may need it.  This is a bit more personal than I expect most posts here, as my own personal need caused me to create this month's topic. 

Blogs crazy format puts the most recent information first, so http://www.storytellingresearchlois.com/search/label/disaster has a webliography/bibliography of resources, but it also includes ideas and suggestions gathered from my storytelling family. 
I'm finally forcing myself and Tom to finish our paperwork.  We delayed touching it and I'm hopeful it's not too late.  Dealing with it was incredibly demoralizing.  Even a year later it hurts to see book titles, for example, of what was lost.  A year later we wondered if ever again we might return to anything awful when absent from home.  If I've any recommendations after a year, it's get your paperwork done as fast as you can.  Things have been forgotten we should have listed, but not the pain.  We hope now it will start to ease.
LoiS(torytelling business and other things always seemed more important than facing this)

Friday, October 29, 2010

When Disaster Strikes Webliography/Bibliography

Disaster/Disruption Webliography
2 factsheets from Mental Health America: http://www.mentalhealthamerica.net/go/information/get-info/coping-with-disaster

http://www.mentalhealthamerica.net/index.cfm?objectid=C7DF9618-1372-4D20-C807F41CB3E97654  Coping with Bereavement

CDC on disaster, terrorist attack, or other public health emergency  http://www.bt.cdc.gov/mentalhealth/

For disruption:
http://blogs.hbr.org/kanter/2010/04/surprise-four-strategies-for-c.html Harvard prof. Rosabeth Moss Kanter's equation: MTBS = or < MTMD. MTBS is the mean time between surprises, which is shrinking. MTMD is the mean time to make a decision, which better be fast.  Her 4 strategies are Backup; Communication; Collaboration; Values and principles.  These tend to be more organizational than personal and emphasize planning ahead for "surprises."

Problems within an organization's changes
http://ezinearticles.com/?Coping-with-Poorly-Planned-Change&id=732634

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UNDERSTANDING AND COPING WITH LIFE CHANGES
“Change is inevitable; growth is optional.”—Bumper sticker, author unknown.http://www.mstherapist.com/resources/pdfs/services/LifeChange.pdf

http://gigaom.com/collaboration/7-sneaky-disruptions-that-can-negatively-impact-your-work/

http://www.ext.colostate.edu/pubs/consumer/10214.html (has a seasonal metaphor)

http://www.parkerphd.com/PDFs/Resilience_The_Ability_to_Bounce_Back.pdf  (The elements that help are worth cultivating; unfortunately this repeatedly leads the reader into a therapeutic situation -- worthwhile if needed, but doesn't suggest ways to do it without therapy.)

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Bibliography
In the earlier section of suggestions, Rabbi Harold Kushner's classic book, When Bad Things Happen to Good People  was suggested to me.  Currently Amazon lists it as 4 stars after 171 reader reviews.  A lot of people have found this book useful.

Similarly I found the most help from books with a Biblical viewpoint.  If you consider this a bias, so be it, but I've learned over the years when things are at crisis stage all around me, it's time to look up. (Remember that daughter with brain surgery among other severe problems?) The Bible's little book of Psalms is a great place to start.  These "songs" often express great frustration mixed with praise for help from beyond the world around us.

Beyond Chaos: Stress Relief for the Working Woman by Sheila West includes setting up a special plan to reduce your stress and to understand stress so it can be positive.  Her personal insights and focus on ways to accept chaos without letting it control or damage health earned Zig Ziglar's forward and, recently on the internet, he called it a classic and I agree.  I also suggest it's not just for "the Working Woman" even though West's view came from that background.

Only after the worst of my own chaos was subsiding did I remember having read Fearless: Imagine Your Life Without Fear  by Max Lucado.  It's a great book in many ways, including but also way beyond my specific situation.  I recommend this for the variety of chapters touching on many types of problems and crises. The breadth of coverage doesn't negate how Publishers Weekly says its "precision speaks healing words that cut right to the heart."  It's one of those books you find yourself also wanting to give to other people so they can appreciate it, too.

Like any "bibliomaniac", there's always more to read.  Just found another interesting book on my shelf, When the Squeeze Is On; Growing Through Pressure by Martha Thatcher.  Again checking Amazon's reviews, I'm intrigued by this book's breadth of topics and ways of coping with life's pressures through Biblical biographical studies.  Unfortunately, while the book is available through Amazon, it's no longer in print, so it will be harder to obtain and I didn't find it MeLCat, Michigan's listing of books available within the state for interlibrary loan.

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This concludes my First Aid Kit for the various problems that may interrupt life.  I'm sure it won't resolve all problems, but I hope it helps.  Stories, by their very nature, have problems that must be resolved.  I look forward to researching whatever your storytelling program may need and helping your audiences see problems in a new way.

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You may also find the conclusions reached on the anniversary of our disaster at When Disaster Strikes One Year Later worth checking.

When Disaster Strikes - Individual Ideas

These ideas came from only one person, but often it was a person who had been through disasters as bad or worse than my own.  Everybody has something to contribute, so I want to be sure and offer these since we all have different things that work for us.
  • Some people work better alone; some work better with company, do whatever works best for you.
  • Get a colleague to be a sounding board and do the same for that person; listen regularly to how much each of you have accomplished and give affirmations for that, but don’t tell each other how to do things.  Knowing you won’t be judged, but will be reporting, means you’ll accomplish more.
  • Your work may drop, especially if you have no staff to take over for you.
  • Put everything related to the problem out of your mind for a time.
  • Keep track of what you have done.
  • Read When Bad Things Happen to Good People - this will appear in the Bibliography/Webliography final segment.
  • If you seem to go beyond ordinary upset into Depression, see somebody credentialed and, if you have medication, take it.
  • Send a group email telling what happened to as many as possible / take every opportunity to write or tell others. -- As a storyteller, who usually doesn't tell personal stories, at first this felt like I was making excuses.  Do it anyway.  You and other people benefit from understanding why you are acting the way you are.  You may think you are acting normally, but it will help others understand why you are NOT.
  • Tell yourself “This may be awful today, but will make a great story someday.”
  • Accept that some days are just bitter, but some days are sweet or simply bland.
  • Know it will get better.
  • My favorite mantra: Sooooooooo watt (that came from a storytelling friend who worked through a fire in her home); another said over and over: Nothing is happening in this moment that I can’t handle – relax and believe it will all be as it should be in time.
  • Soothing music / hum, chant, sing.  In contrast to that, yet another suggested finding some times for silence.  (During those first weeks we found the ROAR! of the fans and drying machines overwhelming.)
I haven't always counted as much on these, but that doesn't mean I didn't try them in some cases.  I did pay extra attention to anybody who had experienced a similar event or worse.  Just trying an idea can be helpful as it means you are making an effort towards resolving your problem.

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You may also find the conclusions reached on the anniversary of our disaster at When Disaster Strikes One Year Later worth checking.

When Disaster Strikes - FREQUENT Suggestions

When I asked my fellow storytellers what suggestions they could offer, this is a list of suggestions given by more than one person. 
  • The most often given suggestion was to take breaks in NATURE and fall into rhythm with nature.  I live in a setting where I thought I already was doing this until my husband, Tom, and I had to travel to the north tip of the Michigan "mitten."  It was a work-related trip, but it was also just as autumn's colors were popping out in all their glory.  We returned to our Chaos Central and it didn't take long to return to all the insanity, but we still talk about our gratitude for that trip.
  • Do whatever gives you a sense of well being (chocolate, dinner, a movie, reading, time with an upbeat friend, pets, physical activity etc.) and renews rather than drains you.
  • Get away for short bursts.
  • Do small jobs and focus on 1 accomplishment at a time.  (In our particular Chaos there is a seemingly endless supply of such jobs, listing what was destroyed, and, eventually, putting things back in order.)
  • Try to keep a regular schedule.  My work isn't regular.  Normally I thrive on that, but during a crisis, times subbing in the library felt like a vacation!  Added to that, I found a dance class or rehearsals for a coming show were a help.  It felt insane to do any of this, but it was helpful to have this regularity already on my schedule and it also forced me to really concentrate on something different.
  • Journal, especially gratitude – nightly list 5 things for which you are grateful.
  • Cry. (Giving yourself permission means you won’t have to do it too often.)  I am NOT a person who cries easily.  It was hard for me to do this.  It finally came in church.  I use sign language as I sing as it helps me think about what I'm singing.  I found I became both fierce and tearful as God challenged me to trust His support.
  • Let go a little…it’s o.k. to be overwhelmed and not give yourself a hard time about it; you have grieving to do (possessions also hold meaning and saying goodbye is important).
  • Laughter and humor, even if dark, is needed.  Personally I've always considered humor a major weapon in my toolbox for any problem.
  • See the benefits: After a big CA earthquake, a woman said in an NPR interview that at first she was very sad, especially about photos and special mementos, but then she realized she could put all her remaining “stuff” in her car and be free to travel anywhere.  
Speaking about benefits: I do NOT recommend my type of Disaster as a way to renovate, but it did have that benefit.  Unfortunately I like my surroundings to require minimal attention.  I do NOT have a Decorator gene and am not somebody who moves furniture about for a change of pace.

  • Exercise and eat a well balanced diet of healthy food.  Disasters are by their nature stressful.  You also are more prone to accidents then and it's easier to get sick.  I remember a broken leg happened in our family when a daughter had brain surgery.   As for strained muscles, right now I'm blaming all the heavy moving, but tension may have also played a part. 
That's the suggestions I heard from more than one person.  The next section will have ideas offered by only one person, but still may help you.

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You may also find the conclusions reached on the anniversary of our disaster at When Disaster Strikes One Year Later worth checking.

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Stories for When Disaster Strikes

Here are three stories matching the disaster theme, but your specific Coping with Chaos theme might need more if I was designing an actual program for you.  I might consult resource books like Margaret Read MacDonald's Storytellers Sourcebooks and the various volumes of Index to Fairy Tales that offer specific subject indexing.  Another great source is Story-lovers S.O.S. put together from the suggestions of fellow storytellers on the international storytelling email list, Storytell.  Two sections there most likely to be useful are "Emotions" and "The Human Condition", but webmaster, Jackie Baldwin, also has a search feature for the site.

The two tales my fellow storytellers agree fit When Disaster Strikes will follow, but by now you may wonder what was my own personal disaster. 

A $4 Part
It all began a year and a half ago when my husband updated our toilet with a $4 part.  We were away from home for two days and returned to a flooded house!  The part had broken, sending six inches of water into a basement loaded with storage, especially books and clothes, and ruining the flooring and drywall in our bedroom, two bathrooms, the hall, and our linen closet. 

The typical question asked at this point has to do with our insurance coverage.  The answers aren't simple.  Months earlier we had seen our agent to assess any possible gaps in our coverage. We were told we had "102% coverage."  Sounds good, doesn't it?  Unfortunately he didn't catch a change to our policy leaving us with only the depreciated value of our personal property.  So most items were worth 20 cents on the dollar.  Yes, our "structure", the things that put together our house like drywall and carpeting were covered, but our belongings were not.  It did us little good to hear things like "I don't even sell policies like that.  I send anybody wanting only that kind of coverage to somebody else." or "Ultimately it's the policy holder's responsibility."  So much for his assessment.

I could say a lot more about what happened, but will summarize and leave room for the other two stories.  ServPro did a great job of draining the basement (we started, but it was more than we could do) and moving our belongings, both our warehouse of a basement and our bathrooms and bedroom.  The bedroom went into our living room, so it was right there facing you whenever the front door opened!  For two weeks we lived with the roar of pumps and dryers.  For about a month and a half we lived in the midst of construction.

Our re-builders, Above Board, lived by their name, both in their workmanship and our confidence in giving them access to the house even when we were away.  By the time they were almost finished, I felt like a homeowner on This Old House getting the summary of work.  They've gone now and we're trying to put our belonging back where they belong.  Getting dressed is still an adventure as things were boxed and moved often without our decisions.  Things needed to move and move quickly!  At times clothing was sealed up to protect it, some went in a spare room, some on a table or rack in our garage, or around the living room/bedroom.  Finding that pair of shoes, blouse, or earrings took creativity! 

Hours doing laundry at the laundromat, where there were extra large washers and dryers, are starting to fade into memory.  It will take a long time for the pain of listing ruined loved books and clothes to fade.  People were mainly supportive, but the comment about turning off the water before leaving home wasn't.  The damage might have been a bit less, but still a lot if we'd been gone just for a day of storytelling.  In summary, I definitely would NOT advise this as a way to get your house remodeled!

So much for my own personal cautionary tale.

It Could Be Worse
When this happened a folktale, often attributed to Eastern European Jewish tradition, popped into my mind immediately.  No matter how bad your disaster, let this story's title help remind you that somehow "It Could Be Worse."

The briefest way I can tell this:
A man finds the noise and confusion from his children, pets, and wife in a tiny house drive him crazy.  He goes to see the village wise man or rabbi.  "Get your ____" (I like to let my audience suggest the barnyard animals) "and bring it into the house."  The man is puzzled, but does as he is told.  Of course the animal is noisy, messy, and a major problem, so he goes back for better advice.  He's told "It could be worse" and again given the suggestion "Get your ____ and bring it into the house."  The man is puzzled, but does as he is told, adding this different animal to the previous one for even more noise, mess, and problems.  Back he goes, this time hoping for better advice.  Again he is told, "It could be worse.  Get your ____ and bring it into the house."   He is puzzled, but once again does as he is told since everybody agrees this is the wisest man in their area.  Of course, the animals, children, pets, and his wife altogether create a house filled with noise, fur, feathers, and . . . well, much worse!  At last he can stand it no more and returns to complain about this insanity!

The wise man smiles and says it is now time to put the barnyard animals back where they belong and clean up the house.  This happens and the house is now filled with the peaceful sounds and smells of his family and their pets and a happy man who knows...It Could Be Worse.

Solomon's Ring
One of the reasons I treasure the networking of storytellers on the email list, Storytell, and also the "social" network Professional StorytellerWikipedia there are various versions, but I'll retell it briefly as it has been most often told to me.

Long ago in the days of King Solomon, the king gathered his wisest advisers and requested a ring that would grant great power; a ring with words having the ability to make someone sad happy, but also someone happy sad.  At last he received such a ring and the powerful king regretted his request.  Engraved upon the ring were the words able to change his happiness to sadness, but also whenever he was sad, could help bring him happiness.  Those words were: This, too, shall pass.

LoiS-sez
Those three stories, of course, are just the start.  I love creating storytelling programs around a theme, it certainly could be something to fit a particular disaster, with stories added to fit your specific disaster.  That said, I would hope to be able to bring enjoyment and stories on happier occasions, too.

I hope you will also read the sections on suggestions for When Disaster Strikes.

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You may also find the conclusions reached on the anniversary of our disaster at When Disaster Strikes One Year Later worth checking.

When Disaster Strikes First Aid Kit

November is a month dominated by the Thanksgiving holiday.  What do you do when circumstances make it hard to be thankful?

Whether it's worry over health of your own or someone you love, a disaster, the irritation and difficulties of dealing with construction, whatever has you Coping with Chaos, this month I want to create a First Aid Kit for whenever you may need it.  This is a bit more personal than I expect most posts here, as my own personal need caused me to create this month's topic.  It also will not be a single post as I will break it into more than one segment.

As a storyteller I will start with stories, my own and others that fit this topic.  The other stories were also popular with my fellow storytellers when I asked them to suggest ways to Cope with Chaos (especially my own).  The next segment will explore suggestions most frequently mentioned.  After that I will add a variety of suggestions not offered by more than one person, but all may help.  Finally I'll list and discuss briefly some helpful books and give a webliography of helpful internet sites.

You may not need this First Aid Kit now.  That's o.k., just know it's here for when you, or someone you know, may need it.

You may also find the conclusions reached on the anniversary of our disaster at When Disaster Strikes One Year Later worth checking.